a family

something that i really want to share about after i had my dinner with my girl friend and her family last night. i knew my girl friend (yee mun, have to mention her name because she is significant to me xD HAHA) since the age of 14 and we began to be together since secondary 4. after something that has happened unexpectedly recently, i was then meeting her family in the very first time. it was last month that i met with her parents and siblings. yee mun and me used to have conversation about family, she tells me about her family and so do i. yee mun sometimes will complain that her parents was too strict and put too much attention on her. she says she was restricted to do many things by her parents and she feels suppressed. this indirectly makes me feel that her parents are fierce. haha. i comfort her sometimes by telling her that her parents were just too worry about her that make them become so protective because yee mun was the youngest child in the family. she feels better after that, i think o.O after i met her parents, i feel that they aren't that fierce. instead, they are the caring one. for me, i think that her parents are rational and considerate. they might just too concern of yee mun until she feels that she are over protected by her parents. while for her siblings, they are the caring one and sometimes they are hilarious. yee mun and her siblings are behaving just like close friend. they can discuss about anything without hesitation. although her siblings are elder than us few years away, we get on very well. they are informative too! xD

alright, last night we were having dinner together. they encountered some problems. they were sitting there and try to highlight everything that they need to do to overcome these so-called problems. they discussed together and everyone was actively participating in the conversation. and because of that they tend to come up with solution which is necessary. what i trying to emphasize is that interaction among family member is very important so that we are able to solve problems easily. communicate well with family members can enhance the degree of understanding among each other. if you don't want to reveal the truth and keep it with yourself and hide it in the deepest of bottom in you, then they won't know what are you thinking unless they can read your mind, LOL! the problem you faced won't just disappear in the air suddenly if you avoid it. your family, i believe is the closest people you can mostly depend on in the world. speak the truth with them and they surely will help you out in some way. you will never know how deep is your parents love you and how willing are they to lend you a hand, even handssssssssssssss. lol. so just go for it and speak with them :D

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